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DIRK AND I ARE IN AUSTRALIA!

Dirk and Jesse Australia Logo 170Dirk and I are down under… again! We had an amazing time when we were there in 2015, and are so excited to be back! We arrived on February 21, 2017, and are traveling to Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, and then back to Melbourne before heading home on March 19. We’re holding seminars and participating in forums and panel discussions, and yes, showing up at several parties along the way… including Mardi Gras in Sydney! Our full schedule is below. We really hope to see you!

Please note that while our schedule is fairly well set, it’s still subject to change. I’ll update this page if it does. And ladies: some of our engagements, where indicated, are open to men only… sorry about that. Please join us at our other events, though!


MELBOURNE, FEBRUARY 22 – FEBRUARY 27

February 22, 2017 (Wednesday)

February 24, 2017 (Friday)

  • The Laird, 149 Gipps Street. “Head On with Dirk and Jesse” party. 9:00 pm – Late. Free entry. Details here. Men only.


SYDNEY, FEBRUARY 27 – MARCH 7

March 4, 2017 (Saturday)


BRISBANE, MARCH 7 – MARCH 11

March 10, 2017 (Friday)

  • Spunk’d/Number 29 Cruise Club in-store signing and live sex show, 29 McLachlan Street. 9:00 pm – Late. Details here. Please note: Women are welcome at the signing portion of the event (at Spunk’d), but he sex show is open to men only. Please arrive before 10:30 pm to make sure you catch us at the signing!


MELBOURNE, MARCH 11 – MARCH 19

March 11, 2017 (Saturday)

March 13, 2017 (Monday)

  • Eagle Leather, 80 Hoddle Street. Workshop: Spanking, Flogging, and Impact Play. More than just taking out your aggression on a willing submissive, impact play covers a tremendously broad range of sensations and activities. From the intimacy of skin-to-skin contact when using your hands to the power of a substantial flogger, from the thud of a leather strap to the intense localized sting of a cane, and from the sheer variety of options available among floggers and flails, learn how to make the most of whatever tools you choose, how to vary the intensity and the sensation, and how to build the experience for the sub most effectively so he lasts longer and can go further. We’ll also look into sensation management and processing for the recipient of these blows, and how to communicate between partners what the other is feeling. 5:00 pm – 6:00 pm. Hosted by Dirk Caber. (Hover over title for full description.)
  • Eagle Leather, 80 Hoddle Street. Workshop: Intimacy, Spirituality, and Altered Reality: So why exactly do we put ourselves and each other through these rather extraordinary circumstances for the sake of connection, to express affection, or to engage our lust? What makes BDSM — the sensation, the power and submission, and perhaps ultimately the sex — something we crave when it obviously doesn’t interest so many outside the BDSM circles? Why do we often set aside our notion of "self" in favor of another persona, or even another species? And just why does the BDSM community make such comparatively tight-knit friendships and (often highly diverse) family units? Thinking the answer lies in our willingness to explore a deeper attachment and connection to each other, we’ll discuss our experiences, insights, and intuitions. There is no one answer to any of these questions, but as we talk, hopefully we will all broaden our individual conclusions. Where the Mind and Heart Go in BDSM. 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm. Hosted by Dirk Caber. (Hover over title for full description.)

March 14, 2017 (Tuesday)

  • Eagle Leather, 80 Hoddle Street. Workshop: Ice, Wax, and Temperature Play. We all know a bit about candle wax, and who hasn’t incorporated a bit of ice into their play? But there are so many more devices and devious means of stimulating and tormenting a sub than just these. We’ll talk about simple methods using items you probably have around the apartment (from soda cans to things in your medicine cabinet) to far more elaborate and advanced techniques (from incense cones to flash cotton and alcohol). We’ll talk about means of using perceptions of temperature to enhance a few other SM techniques. We’ll talk about things you don’t want to try. And as we are dealing with a set of practices which carry the possibility of burns or other bodily harm, we’ll discuss precautionary safety concerns, first aid, and emergency management… knowledge which hopefully you’ll never need to be glad you know. 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm. Hosted by Dirk Caber. Men only. (Hover over title for full description.)

March 18, 2017 (Saturday)